Women, especially people

Women are creatures that God created as perfecting men's lives, after Adam was created, then Eve was created.

A man who is the time to get married and has enough, if he doesn't have a woman he likes or likes, then he feels that his life is empty and meaningless. Because the necessity of a man to a woman is not only a biological need, but the presence of a woman in a man's life is more than anything, like a person who does not have hands, then he is given a hand for him.

"O young people, whoever among you is able to get married, then get married. Because marriage is more able to hold the view and more maintain the genitals. And whoever is incapacitated, let him fast; because fasting can suppress her lust (as a shield) ", (H.R. Bukhari).

Islamic Hungarian Woman

In Islam, women are very special place, even Allah SWT perpetuate women in the Qur'an, namely the letter An Nisa and the letter Mary. This proves that women have a higher degree than men, even the height of women up to three degrees above men.

"From Abu Hurairah radhiyallaahu 'anhu, he said," Someone came to the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wasallam and said, 'O Messenger of Allah, to whom should I first serve?' Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam replied,' Your mother! ' asked again, 'Then who else?' The Prophet (peace be upon him) alaihi wasallam answered, 'Your mother!' The person asked again, 'Then who else?' He replied, 'Your mother.' The person asked again, 'Then who else,' the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam replied,' Then your father. '"(HR. Bukhari Muslim).

In addition to the nature of women who are very noble and special, Islam explains that women who are very special are those who do the commands of Allah and stay away from His prohibitions.

"If a woman prays five times a day, fasts in her month, looks after her genitals and obeys her husband, it will be said to her:" Enter heaven from whatever heaven you like. "(Ibn Hibban and Thabrani)

"Allah's grace upon a woman who wakes up at night and prays, then wakes up her husband and participates in prayer. If her husband is reluctant then he splashes water on his face. " (Ahmad, Abu Dawud)

Although women are very special creatures in Islam, but not all women are the same glory, glory to him depends on him, if he places it in a noble place then he will become a heavenly angel, and if he follows his desires, then he will become a resident of hell .

The obligations of women in this world are only three kinds, namely performing the five daily prayers (ie prayers that prevent her from committing heinous and unjust acts), carrying out compulsory fasting and obeying her husband, if this they have then she can enter heaven from any door. The woman who has performed the five daily prayers according to Allah's commands and her prayers has been accepted, so she never said violently, covered the genitals, did not wear tight clothing, and kept her genitals. The obligations of a wife to her husband are only three kinds, namely obedience to the husband, surrendering himself to the husband, and being pleased with her husband (‘Uqudul Lijain).

There are nine categories of ideal women / wives in Islam, namely women / wives who are righteous, women / wives who are patient with the poor treatment of their husbands, faithful women / wives, women / wives who obey their husbands, women / wives who are steadfast in facing life's trials , women / wives who are gentle and affectionate, women / wives who maintain personal purity, women / wives who always love their husbands, and women / wives who die in childbirth.

Seven women who live in hell, namely women / wives who hurt their husbands, women / wives who cheat, women / wives who always sue their husbands, women / wives who often berate, women / wives who like to prink when leaving the house, women / wives who love ask for divorce, and women / wives who like to pit sheep.

Women's Association Now

The more sophisticated and modern the development of the times, the heavier and bigger the challenges for women, both in relationships and clothing. Designing a variety of clothing models, ranging from appropriate to wear to the span models that often act in the name of Muslim-style clothing often makes women trapped. And this is coupled with an understanding of gender that forgets the nature of women so that a woman is like a man too, free in all respects.

The phenomenon that we see now, most women have forgotten the nature of their womanhood, and consider him to be the same as a man, not to be ashamed of wearing jeans, clothes that show his muscles, even just covering his head.

When I had a coffee and finished this article in a coffee shop in Aceh, suddenly a woman and two guys came to sit beside my table, and they had coffee too, eating noodles together, strangely, the woman did not feel guilty or wearing clothes, even she felt comfortable and enjoy it. Blue jeans are very tight, flower-patterned clothes are also very tight and red paris jelbab which he wears only in the bulkhead of his neck, which is worse with the clothes very clearly drawn body shape.

The story of my friend when he came home from college, a woman in tight clothes, tight clothes, not wearing a backseat behind a guy, whether he was husband or wife or not, but her whole body was pressed against his back and because he was too cool to lean on, the woman did not realize that her clothes had explained up, so he has exhibited something that is not worth showing.

Dating culture that is very damaging to morals and manners, also often makes a woman worthless in front of a man, in the name of love he is willing to touch his body and some even up to adultery.

  

Is this the fight for gender? Is this the freedom a woman dreams of? Remember you are very noble, do not let the glory that you dumped and complacent with momentary pleasure. Remember also, your self-esteem is more than everything, offer what you have and are very noble only to those who are lawful to you.