Basically, humans are created by God in a state of nature,
then his parents who adorn these people, whether a human being either remains
in Islam or he becomes a higher human being out of Islam.
"Every child is suitable in a state of nature. It was
his parents who became Jews, a Christian and also a Magi ", (H. R Abu
Hurairah).
"Every child is
suitable in a state of nature. It was his parents who became Jews, a Christian
and also a polytheist. "Then a man asked:" O Messenger of Allah! What
is the opinion before the child dies? "He replied:" Allah knows
better about what they have done ", (H. R Abu Hurairah).
Woman is a figure that is so beginning on this earth, even
that woman Allah immortalized in the Quran with the name of the letter "An
Nisa" and the letter "Maryam". But now the reality of good and
evil ascribed responsibility cannot be separated from his behavior and actions,
it is very unfortunate that he himself has never been questioned by the Koran
who has appreciated it, titles that damage his own passion, he asked for
prostitutes, comfort women, chillies-cabe , campus chickens, and many other
terms that we really regret.
Shalihah
woman is an angel
Salihah
women are Qanitaat (devout people) and Hafidhaat (people who take care of
themselves) when her husband is not there (Shaykh Halim).
Salihah
women are women who always obey Allah and His Messenger, keep their genitals,
and obey their husbands, (q Uqudul Lijain).
The three
obligations above must be done by a woman so that she is categorized as a
shalihah woman, the heaven of a married woman is dependent on how her husband
is pleased with her as long as she does not contradict the Shari'a.
"If
a woman performs her five daily prayers, performs her shaum in the month, keeps
her genitals, and obeys her husband, then he will enter heaven from any door he
wishes", (HR Ibnu Hibban in his Sahih).
One day
the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam once said "that he saw women are
the most inhabitants of hell. A woman also asked him why is that? Rasulullah
also answered that he was among many women who were ungodly to their husbands
", (Bukhari Muslim HR).
Women who are righteous have the
characteristics that are highly demanded in the Quran and Hadith, namely:
1.
Obedient and obedient to her
husband, "Men are leaders over women because Allah has exaggerated some of
them [men] over some others [women] and because of something they [men] have
spent from her wealth, so pious women are those who are devoutly caring for
themselves behind their husbands as God has preserved themselves ", (Q. S
Annisa: 34).
2.
Loving always returns to her
husband and looks for forgiveness, "Will I tell you, your wives who are
the inhabitants of heaven that is a loving wife, many children, always
returning to her husband. Where if her husband is angry, he come to her husband
and put his hand on her husband's hand while saying: "I cannot sleep
before you are pleased", (HR An-Nasai).
3.
Serve her husband (devoted to her
husband), as did Asma 'bintu Abi Bakar Ash-Shiddiq radhiallahu' anhuma who
served to Az-Zubair ibnul Awwam radhiallahu 'anhu, her husband.
4.
Do not give outrity except to her
husband, "The woman who commits adultery and the man who commits adultery,
then suffer each one of the two hundred dera flags, and do not be compassionate
to both prevent you from (practicing) the religion of God, if you believe in
Allah, and the hereafter, and let their execution be witnessed by a group of
believers ", (Q. S An Nuur: 2-3).
5.
Keeping the secrets of the
husband, especially those relating to the intimate relationship between her and
her husband.
6.
Always look good and attractive
in front of her husband so that when he looks at it will please him. "Will
I tell you about the best of the treasury of a man, that is the wife of Salihah
who, if deemed to please him, if ordered to obey him and if he leaves, this
wife will look after him". (H.R. Abu Dawud).
7.
When her husband is at home (not
traveling / safar), he does not concern himself with the sunnah which can
prevent him from resting with her like fasting, except if he permits. "It
is not lawful for a wife to fast (sunnah) while her husband is there (not
traveling) except with his permission", (H. R. Al-Bukhari).
8.
Good at giving thanks and goodness to her husband,
not forgetting his kindness, "Shown by hell to me, it turns out I found
that most of the inhabitants are women who are kufr." Someone asked him:
"Are they Kufr of Allah?" He replied: "They kufuri husband and
kufuri (not grateful) for his goodness. If one of you is doing good to one of
them (wife) a full year, then he saw from you something (which is not pleasing
to him) he would have said:" I never saw from you goodness at all ",
(HR. Al-Bukhari).
9.
Immediately fulfill the husband's invitation to
fulfill his desires, do not reject it without syar'i reasons, and do not move
away from her husband's bed, because he knows and is afraid, "For the sake
of my soul in his hands, it is not a husband to call his wife to a place his
sleep then the wife refused (reluctantly) but those in the sky were angry with
him until the husband was pleased with him. " (H. R. Muslim).
10.
Relieved the husband's heart when seen, "For a
male believer, after the submission of Allah SWT, then there is nothing that is
most useful for him, other than a pious wife. Namely, obedient when governed,
relieved when seen, pleased when given and keep the self-respect of her and her
husband when he leaves. " (H. R Ibnu Majah).
11.
Amanah, "There are three kinds of luck (for a
man), namely: first, having a pious wife, if you see relief and if you stay
away he is trustworthy and safeguards his self-respect and your wealth
..." (HR Judge).
12.
The wife of Shalehah is able to provide a calm
atmosphere and peace of mind and feeling for her husband, "Among the signs
of His power, that is, He created a partner for you of your own kind, so that
you can find peace with him. Really in such a heart are signs (power) of Allah
for those who think ", (Q. S Ar Rum: 21).
Salih woman is a resident of heaven who will be an angel
for her husband who is righteous, and she will be the jewel of life in the
world until the hereafter.
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